All of us have THAT Friend or even a Family Member,
They Most of the time Believe that they’re doing the Right thing
Their Ideas and Thoughts on a Specific subject is Correct…
For THEM at the time, that may be Right;
But here’s the RUB,
Just When or How many OTHERS in whichever Diversity in Their Lives must see that they’re NOT as Correct as they Believe themselves to be,
Before the Reality should hit Home – opening their Eye to this fact?
We don’t want to Beat Down on the Ones we Care for,
BUT – You don’t want them falling down the Rabbit Hole either,
Shattering at the Bottom!
Where is, and Where do you Actually find that THIN Line
Between Helping and Becoming a Broken Gramophone Turner,
Trying Your best at Helping THEM – Especially when they believe they don’t need it!
ALTHOUGH you believe that They might have the Issue or Problem,
But this Table could and or would be Turned on you,
Seeing that You’re trying to Help them see that there’s Something A-Miss with the Current Situation – Which could Easily be Pointed out to You;
Which would be that You’ve got an Issue with their Choices.
AS I said; when would the Table the turned on You?
Then the OTHER Million Dollar Question,
Just how long should we Pursue this Issue or Problem they may have,
Doing our Best at not ONLY to support them,
But in doing so – Trying our Level Best at Helping them when we AND
others see they’re Wasting their Time, Energy and possibly Money on something
Lost to their Insight…
We can very easily See and Name so many Hap-hazardous Issue and Problems
Which could Affect anyone around us,
It’s not Naming them, even Seeing them –
The Question is this;
When does Our insistence at Helping them Become the Very same as the Issue we’re seeing in Their Lives?
When does Too much Interference in Their Lives become an Issue and a Problem as well?
You, Me, We all have had Issues and Problems to deal with;
If you do NOT work through these in Your Life –
Just how would you Gain Insights, Wisdom, and Understanding.
When someone SEE these and they are Unwilling to Learn from what they should KNOW isn’t a Positive in their Lives,
Just how LONG should you Try and help them Seeing the Light of day?
Then the last Thought on this,
When do you See that Your Continuance of Chipping away at the Block,
Which could be their Insistent Pig-Headedness –
When does this “Possible” lost cause,
Become Your OWN Issue that you cannot allow them to Learn
Crash and Burn to Learn,
Becomes Your Own Issue you cannot let be?
When does Retreating, become a Viable aspect of Survival for Your own Sanity, An Option which You should Consider,
Seeing that Either you’re wasting your Time and Energy and Life
On this Person you want, need or should Help –
BUT in the End, they could Easily Drag you down as well?
Most of us can ONLY try our very best,
But at the End of the day,
We should allow them To Fall to Grow,
Seeing the Light of FIGHT to reach the End of that Possible Dark Tunnel –
Just remember, the Tunnel THEY may be Seeing isn’t that Dark as You suspect or See or Feel it is,
Pulling them from there,
That could Spiral them into something even Worse than where they’d been…
THUS, the Question,
When is Too Much… TOO MUCH?