I cannot say with Any kind of Certainty that this is even Close to what the Truth of Other People’s lives are or could be.
While I walk up and down during the Days or do something when and where I need to do this – I see people around me. Yes I know as well, Looking at them you Cannot ascertain for sure if they’re Happy or just what may or may NOT be going on in their lives.
I know for a certain FACT that you Cannot judge a Person by the Moments you see them AND what you Perceive of their Actions.
THUS, it’s sometimes Very Interesting for me to look around me, looking at almost Everyone walking past me. Knowing that they’d Possibly see in Me what I see in them at the same time.
Yet the times I see Unhappiness, Sadness or Despair in their Faces – I wonder just how Accurate I really am; Understanding that I Cannot forever always be even Close to the Possible truth, as to what these People may Feel or Think…
We Cannot always as well walk around with a Smile on our Faces, BUT it’s not this which I see. If that is, I’m even Seeing what is the possible Truth.
This Image had not Left my Mind in all of this time, knowing that for a Certain Fact that there are a Mired of People we See or Interact with, who aren’t Happy in the Least bit in their Lives. Something which very Few of us could do a thing about.
This doesn’t mean We’ll NOT want to help anyone we know OR that Person you see, looking as Glum as they do. You may Not be able to Spark that Happiness in their Lives or their Souls.
Like an Infectious Disease, when you see someone – thinking of a Baby who sees you Smiling at them; this could very Easily be the First reaction they learn from you. Smiling back at you or whoever it might be there with the Infant.
As long as we Live we Learn how and what to do from those around us. Not saying this is Only the bad and worse things there are out there.
But this stands fast, as we Do what Others Do and not really what they SAY to us, in doing…
There are Times I grant you that, when we need to be Alone in our own Thoughts and you Cannot just sit around, hoping that the Issue or Thought would Resolve itself – in this Times and Days when we’re out and about; Those times could be what I’ve seen in the People as well.
Yet, what I saw, was an Older woman at the specific Shopping Complex and while she walked Alone – with her Possible Age unknown, I did see that she was very Grey and suspected that she could be a Widower (no proof for this thought).
And while I passed her by, I saw the seriousness in her expression. Not saying she was Unhappy, but she wasn’t in a good place either.
Right after her, not ten Steps behind her – there was a young boy. Possibly Primary School and while I approached him, I could see his Expression as well.
From my Perspective, he didn’t look Happy in the least bit. And with the Speed which Children grow-up these days and the Number of Predators out there, Horrible situation they could be involved with – No One can ever tell me any Teenage Child couldn’t have seen Terrible bits by now in their lives…
There is absolutely Nothing wrong, not always Walking around with a Smile on your face. It’s just once again Something I see around me, looking at People as I do, realizing just how few times I do see Happier people themselves.
My belief in most Instances, for Myself, is this – I cannot say that I’m always Cheerful which for All of us would be Really difficult. And so, I believe that Forcing ourselves in being that which You’re not feeling at the time; takes a Greater Deal of Energy from you to maintain.
In this Regard, I’ve become a little more Straight Forward over the Years. Not only this, I hate it to Waste my time and thus, Anyone would know Exactly where they Stand with me. In doing so – I don’t waste their time either.
When they then Do see me, out of my Skin, I’ll have good Reason for being such a State of Euphoria. Another thing which helps me, when People see me, as Neutral as Possible, Acting Normally around them – they’d far more Revert back to their Current Internal Emotional State.
YES, Yes I know this sounds Funny. SO, I’m almost Hiding in Plain Sight, seeing and looking through the Looking Glass which is so Eccentric to me, Observing those around me and in this way; Learning more and more about Human behavior.
The ONLY thing here I really do have an ISSUE with, even though we Might NOT always want to Smile or jump out of Our Skins – I do believe that when You, Me, We Affect others Unjustly; that’s when our Personal Feelings become something to DREAD, making other People around us Unhappy as well…
Being Honest is good, Being Rude isn’t even Close to that!
Being Upset or Unhappy is your right,
But Willfully Affecting others because You’re not in a Good place,
That should Ring some Bells, for you to Look at yourself and Figure out what is going on,
Do NOT pull Other’s down because they’re not there…
It is SO easy at Pulling others Down with you,
Self-pity and wallowing in your Issue is Far Less Strain –
Seeing, when You’re not Positive or at least Content – Reaching there, Could be Much Harder Work in Reaching AND Maintaining this Personal Level of being…