Luckily for me so far during this Winter,
I’ve not been Hit too hard with my problems with Sinus,
I have taken precautions with the Various Medications in keeping myself as Healthy as I possibly could!
Over the weekend I stood in the One Pharmacy,
Looking at two Girls two spaces in front of me,
Realizing something very interesting.
As I’ve seen a few Movies and Television Shows,
Using animals in their Story as the Subject which the Characters revolved around,
Seeing their Behavior among the various Animals,
The thought popped up in my Mind while I looked at the two girls.
The Older girl, possibly no older than 16 was playing with the younger girl’s hair,
Possibly her sister.
Knowing the other Sex within my Species – this I had seen many times before,
Thus, it wasn’t something Brilliantly Extraordinary at all.
That said when you do take into account the Difference between Us
And either the Chimpanzee or even Gorillas,
It would become a lot clearer for anyone to see.
The Females also groom the Males,
Spending time with the Alpha male and with the other Females and
Children they are rearing.
While the Women are the caretakers in the Dynamic of the Modern Families,
They do need help and the Point I suspect where the Fathers come into play,
Either when the Children ask them something,
Need them to teach them something, which the Children then want to do Or
Experience themselves.
It’s not that the Fathers do not care in caring for the Children,
But it’s not an Instinct which is activated for most of them;
Especially when you look at women.
Having grown through youth,
Having been a little kid,
I can tell you as many would know,
When you hurt yourself or need some input on most things,
You ask your Mother or possibly Sisters.
They would also react faster when you got injured in some way,
But when you need to Protect yourself more or something harder to do,
Then you’d ask your Father for his input.
It is far Easier and Normal for a woman to platonically in contact with each other,
Braiding their hair and spending that much time with each other,
If you were to look at the very same aspect where Brothers, Nephews or even Good Friends were involved in the very same Connection,
I suspect that many Questions would be raised.
When we need that Contact and Companionship,
Men, Boys and the such would seek out because of their Hormones as well,
The women of their Race – being pulled toward them like a Magnet.
That is the time when this Aspect of Caring and Caressing kick into high-gear.
Everyone would know and admit,
Looking at the Roles which Men and Woman do play in some instances,
The Stigma of NOT doing as such,
That would create far more trouble than what Anyone wants.
If you need someone to become More than they Are,
Especially when they are with you,
Then you’ll have to work with the
Man or Woman, you’re in a Relationship with.
NO One is a Mind Reader,
No matter what Anyone thinks,
And even more so, when you’re Hiding a Fear or Uncertainty.
If you cannot tell them what you need,
How would they know and Grow with you?
Cobus Vermeulen AUTHOR 