Here I am, early in the morning, just before 4 O’clock,
Unable to sleep while the ideas keep me awake – nope, cannot keep on rolling around,
Getting one of my Posts done seemed like a good idea.
Sitting and writing, I heard the song of Dua Lipa – IDGAF,
And another idea hit me, while I listened to this song,
Why has it happened over the years gone by,
That opposite personality People are attracted to each other?
And yes, here’s maybe just a few thoughts on this…
I did go online, researching what the various smart people said there,
As well, found a few places where they say no opposite people, should be attracted to each other,
Or why it cannot happen.
The main focus here should, in fact, be this;
If you’re into that person, if you’re happy with them,
The biggest culminating attribute you should have;
The willingness to work with that opposite personality person – trying all you can, making the relationship work.
In everything there is,
With only this one sentiment, there’s so much more which can come,
But that will need you to be open to learning things anew!
As with everything we try for the first time,
There’s a definite adjusting period,
Realizing along the way just how directly, different you are from him or her.
This is the very same as with a new car,
a New computer program,
That new PC game,
Starting to watch a new Series or listening to that new Band…
All of them have a transitions period needed.
If and when you can move past this time in your relationship,
You’ll find there are exciting new aspects of dating your polar opposite as well,
Not only that – you could as well find it more exciting to really get to know the other person!
It can be good for you, having someone to your direct opposite;
They could be good for you – helping you become a better person yourself,
Drawing another side of your personality out, which you’d never have known, existed.
This relationship could open your mind to new ideas of what you feel are cornerstones of
your beliefs, seeing other possibilities from their perspective,
Their thoughts could even challenge yours, to see if your understanding and insights of whatever this may be – are really so grounded…
All of this could be really interesting, but it could also lead to a lot more friction,
But – if you do remember it’s not attacking you or saying you’re wrong,
It’s someone else’s different point of view on what you think.
The differences here could also be experienced as that spark which attracts many other couples to each other.
One thing which most of the specialist all say, when that initial spark between most people in their Relationship run out – they find that there aren’t many new things entering the relationship.
In the case of opposites, this seldom happens and the people in these relationships, feel there is more intensity between them.
One of the most problematic issues with polar opposite people in a relationship,
Would be to over-step the boundaries.
You could find out with them how far is too far for you,
Thus – setting up boundaries which you don’t have to cross again,
It could strengthen the relationship.
You can always correct this outer-edge experience and find out how they feel about what you as well experienced and this could be a good thing for the relationship.
Within this, communication is very important – depending on how you communicate yourself and their level of sharing with you, how they feel,
It could help both of you grow in ways you cannot imagine!
The energy and excitement between the two of you,
This can give you a new Insight into your own life, as well as see more of what you could have missed out along the way.
In all aspects, this could help strengthen and increase the duration of your relationship.
It could reveal this opposite person as being the one you’d like to spend the rest of your life with, you’ll never know, if not a chance taken?
In life as with everything else,
There are the good and the bad,
You’ll see immediately what you’ll be okay with,
Just make sure that you know what you’re signing up for,
As long as it makes you happy,
Then see where a new situation can lead you…
Enjoy the ride as long as you like it, or while it lasts.
On the Recommendation of a friend, wanting to help me improve my Writing, I followed her suggestion in changing my writing Attributes – no more excessively CAPITILIZED words.
Tell me if you can see the changes here if you like the new version, or do I need to change it up, even more, even less of what I did here with the bolds, italics and underlining’s?